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Easy ways to Become More Attractive

So You Think There is Something Wrong with You?

I am often surprised by the number of people that write to me to tell me how ugly or unattractive they are and how miserable this makes them.

Maybe they feel that guys and girls don't like them because they are:
a) too fat or too thin
b) too short or too tall
c) not pretty or handsome enough.

It is a sad fact that a lot of people would like to change some physical characteristic about themselves. This flaw or flaws that they perceive in themselves they see as holding them back.

What is Right with You?

My first response to this is to start looking for the physical positives. It is all to easy to criticise others or ourselves as we dream of perfection. The dream world of advertising and fiction often presents us with images of perfection. It is important to remember these are just marketing messages designed to make us buy things.

No-one is perfect and gaining a more balanced view of yourself is very important. Yes, you may be shorter than average, have the odd skin blemish but we all have good things to look at too. In the same way you can focus on the negative you can train yourself to focus on the positive and re-gain a more balanced body image.

What Can you Change?

The next thing to consider is what you can change about yourself. Eating healthily, taking exercise and getting enough sleep can all impact your physical well being and appearance. This is within your control and by taking responsibility you will empower yourself within your life and not only improve your physical self but you will improve your confidence and esteem as well.

Beneath the Skin

Finally, something that a lot of people seem to dismiss or are just not aware of, that makes people truly attractive. It may sound corny but personality and sense of humour are key.

Develop a positive attitude about yourself and life. Learn to laugh at yourself, develop inner confidence (which will come if you take steps to improve yourself). Love and respect yourself and oh boy, watch heads start turning towards you!

Never underestimate the power of a smile and a kind word.

All this and not a cent spent on cosmetic surgery!

Contributed by becando on July 8, 2008, at 11:16 AM UTC.

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